Friday, 18 December 2015

How To Be A Good Friend?.....



Friendship is the most powerful bond between two persons and two hearts.....!!!

  1. Keep your promises: Don't ever make a promise that we cannot keep. If you say once, you will hangout with a friend and a conflict arises,explain the situation to our friend and trust ever that the friendship is strong enough for the no's as well as the yes. If you just can't go, tell him/her a sorry and give a small gift as surprise. Don't give fake promises to your friend. It will break your relationship. While giving such fake promises your friend felt that you are not a trustworthy and nobody committed to you as your friend. Don't break any such promise, as that it will hurt your friend and they keep a distance from you.
  2. Be honest: If you want to be a good friend, then you must must honest about your feelings,your friends doings and about how you feel about your friendship. If you are honest in your feelings and thoughts that open up directly to them and will makes them more likely to open up to you. This shows your sincerity to them. Sometimes your friend hurts you, don't forget to clear your side and also don't ever feel shy to express your thoughts. If there is any misunderstandings in your relationship don't forget to say sorry and try to clear your mistakes if they feel any hurt.
  3. Be dependable: Being dependable is one of the most important aspect of being a good friend. Your friend will need your support especially in hard times. Also,they want yout alone;at this time your commonsense will help your friend. Let your friend know that you can give a shoulder to cry. It will shows the strength of your friendship. 
  4. Learn to forgive: If you want to keep your friendship till last,you must able advice and moral support in hard times. Give specific and accurate advice to them. 
  5. Be together forever: Don't show  Jealousy on them. It's hard to stay on a person who doesn't behave in a constant and trustworthy way. Some people seeks their friends for help and they replied as "Okay,I will..." but they never do it through and in a proper way. If you are not sure that  you can't do something,don't give fake promises.our heart. Try your level best to help your friend in a trouble. You will be there with your friend to overcome from the trouble. Also get away from the worst situation by not being afraid to speak with them. At this time;I realized a wording "A friend in need is a friend indeed". Don't think that your friend can handle ie to forgive your friend's mistakes. If your friend really did something so unforgettable that you just forgot about it,to save your relation. But it is not easy... 


Parvathy.R.Menon

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